Going in for the First Kiss
All night long you have stared at your her lips, practically drooling over the thought of that first kiss. Are her lips as tasty as they look? Will you melt as you touch her soft composure? Will sparks fly and fireworks explode like in the movies? Oh my God, does my breath smell like the garlic? What if she doesn’t like it? Shes so gorgeous….
There is nothing like that first kiss, especially when two people really like each other. That feeling of perfect chemistry that has you laughing and talking no stop without a single hint of awkwardness is like nothing else. But, that lingering doubt about the first kiss can really bother some people. They worry that it will be too soon, or it will be sadly lacking in style, substance or technique. Trust me, if a girl likes you enough, she will forgive virtually any first kiss.
If it is a fairly certain thing that you are going to get that first kiss, then try not to focus on it so much. Tension anywhere in your body will be in your lips as well, and no one likes a tight lipped kisser. Relax. You like kissing, remember? Consider the timing, the setting and the date itself and let those be your cues on how to proceed.
Here are some Extra Tips:
Ignore your excuses
One of the greatest ways to advance and initiate a conversation is to learn to disregard your own excuses: “She’s too pretty for me;” “She’ll think I’m a pervert;” “She’s busy, I don’t want to disturb her.” All these reasons come from the desire to stay in your comfort zone, and each one is completely unnecessary. All these excuses are just in your head stop thinking; move towards her and start talking. You’ll be happy that you did.
The power of a smile
Psychology and body language experts are in agreement that one of the most significant things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile. Not a big plastic game-show smile, just your normal “I’m having fun and I’m happy to be here” smile will do the trick. Be sure that you’re not smirking. Remember, the smile is the international signal of friendliness
Don’t put undue pressure on yourself
One wrong practice that most guys have been doing is that when they catch sight of a woman they’d like to meet, they immediately imagine her as a would-be date, which creates different kinds of pressure. Instead of doing so, you should look at the next woman you meet as a chance to hone your “skills.” This sort of mind set will help you become less anxious about the outcome, therefore making you more relaxed and at ease, and more likely to initiate the conversation. By this you also increase the chances of it turning into a very enjoyable encounter for everyone concerned.
