One of the most embarrassing situations is falling victim to quick ejaculation. It happens to many, many men.
But those who can avoid premature ejaculation and learn how to hold out longer, are the one’s who separate themselves from the crowd. These guys are the one’s who are considered to be amazing in bed and highly desirable to women.
In turn, learning how to hold out longer during sex and avoid premature ejaculation has a huge effect on the male ego. Knowing you can please any woman at anytime, brings on a huge wave of confidence. Approaching women becomes easier, and picking up women becomes a breeze.
And in the bedroom, the fireworks go off. Sex becomes highly satisfying for both you and her.
Unfortunately, most men believe that you either have the skills in the bedroom, or you don’t. But the reality is that most any man can actually learn the skills required to hold out longer during sex and completely avoid premature ejaculation.
The most effective way is learning to gain control over a muscle which is responsible for ejaculation. Some guys naturally have good control over this muscle, hence they are able to last long, but most of us have extremely poor control over this muscle.
The muscle is located between the anus and testicles. If you urinate and stop your urination mid flow, you will immediately notice the muscle that is working to halt the urinary flow. This is the same muscle used for ejaculatory control.
While most guys have no problem stopping urination, when it comes to ejaculation they have very poor control over this muscle. This muscle needs to be worked. You need to gain better control over it to avoid premature ejaculation.
The easiest way to work this muscle is by simply flexing it. Squeeze and tighten it, then release. You will notice how weak this muscle is when trying to do a number of these squeezes in a row. You want to do a number of reps and sets or squeezes, or do squeezes for a certain amount of time depending on what ejaculation routine you are following.
It takes some time, but you will notice that your control will become much stronger. The next step is breathing.
Most guys will flex up their muscle, but at the same time their face tenses up and they hold their breath. You need to learn to both flex and breath slowly at the same time. This will sustain the squeeze and allow you to eventually last as long as you desire.
These results are extremely exciting. You literally can transform yourself from a lousy quick ejaculating lover, to a long lasting, amazing lover who can please any woman, anytime. You can flex on your own or you can find some very effective ejaculation routines and programs on the internet which will bring on results very quickly.
